The Lives of those in Love

So as you can tell from this title, I have found love.

Love - the strangest and most wonderful emotion in the world.

There are many arguments on what love is. My pitch is:

Love - is the uncontrollable longing for someone, with who you want to do everything with. She/he happens to be the only thing that keeps you going night and day. And when your together well, they say love sparks, but sparks doesn't cover what you could describe as a forest fire.

The simple version is you must know in yourself (not just your heart but every cell) that's this person is the right person for you.

I was lucky enough to meet my beautiful girlfriend 1 year ago, however despite our instant friendship nothing happened till 3 (nearly 4) months ago. We live 210 miles apart.

Many people would stop here and go - no thanks.

But another thing about love is - it causes you to do whatever you must to be with the one you love.

So every 3 weeks approximately we see each other, share the duties of travelling. We take every opportunity we can to be together.

For both our parents insist on telling us - Distance makes the heart grow stronger.

So 3 (nearly 4) months in, every possible detail has been spoken about. No secrets and no doubts.

What people of this modern era don't realise is that the biggest part of life now there are over 7 billion of us on this planet and you have to keep your eyes wide but your heart safe.

There is someone for everyone - but u can't find the right someone unless you understand yourself.

It took me 2 ex-girlfriends to find love. It takes others a lot more. And there those who find it first time.

To those who have found it, congrats. Those who haven't, play safe you never know who your true love is........... Maybe your colleague, a best friend, a complete stranger or the childhood crush u haven't spoken too for years. You cannot find what you do not seek.

All of this relates to one point which is becoming a growing concern in most countries.

Why are so many people getting a divorce? Yes we aren't in 1920 where divorce was very rare and under serious circumstances.

There are generations of people around my age (20) who have kids with boyfriends and now are single mums. These people some have unfortunate reasons but the key factor will always remain. If you cannot commit to a lifetime of caring for your child (ren) then think first and apply suitable measures.

Young men are the main culprits. Hormone driven, full of lust (often mistaken for love) and truthfully are like dogs who constantly want to hump something.

Young women aren't the innocent ones in some cases.

Children aren’t something to be taken lightly. To have a child (ren) you must first be sure you can cope. Many young men and a few young women cannot and leave. This causes problems for the child - like who will be there for them as that father/ mother?

To be in trusted with the responsibility of children you must be committed to a lifetime of work. If not then why start the process.

Any Comments??